November 30, 2006

quote of the day

i love quotes and this one seemed to resonate with me as we let go of another november in our lives... here is a quote that inpsires me to be a better person.

"from time to time, to remind ourselves to relax, to be peaceful, we may wish to set aside some time for a retreat, a day of mindfulness, when we walk slowly, smile, drink tea with a friend, and enjoy being together as if we are the happiest people on earth." -thich nhat hanh

November 29, 2006

about unscented Organaic Fiji coconut oil

Sometimes a customers' use of a product, prompts us to share others about their experiences and improve our store too so we'd like to share a quick note about UNSCENTED Organic Fiji coconut oil. If you choose to use this wonderful product in Unscented, don't be surprised with the buttery sugar cookie scent, as our customer with sensitivity to scented products described it to me.

That SCENT comes from the meat of the coconut, from the Fijian Islands, that is extracted using a process called a cold press technique and through this process the oil is able to retain its natural healing properties. So while there are no scents added, there will be the scent from mother nature!

It's THAT pure and you'll LOVE it. Once the oil seeps into the skin you should find the coconut "scent" slowly dissipate, though of course this changes from person to person.

During checkout you will see (tomorrow) an option that will change from Fragrance-free to Unscented. Just a light change in terminology but we think a more accurate one.
  • The benefits of coconut oil are limitless... The deep moisturizing properties of Coconut Oil rapidly hydrate, condition and shield the skin from moisture loss.
  • It is rare to find a moisturizer more effective than Certified Organic Virgin Coconut Oil. Coconut Oil in its purest form is one of the most natural ways to moisturize and treat dry and irritated skin and can even be used as an intensive treatment for damaged hair. Rich in vitamins and anti oxidants, Coconut Oil is a true gift from nature. Oh, and another benefit.... you can cook with it too!
Organic Fiji Coconut Oil

November 28, 2006

organic fiji inventory


Just a quick stock update on our popular organic fiji bodycare line:

We now have IN STOCK* the following scents:
  • bar soap - cucumber melon, tuberose, raspberry
  • 12 oz. lotion - lemongrass tangerine, fragrance-free
  • 2 oz lotion - cucumber melon
  • 12 oz coconut oil - lemongrass tangerine, pineapple coconut
  • 2 oz coconut oil - cucumber melon
currently OUT of STOCK*, but available mid-Dec:
Lemongrass Tangerine Sugar Polish
Coconut Sugar Polish

If you'd like to be notified when they'll be back on our shelves, send us your email.

*store reflects these changes

organic fiji body scrub

the spirit of organic fiji video

November 27, 2006

cyber monday

greetings de-stress divas and devos!

it's been a whirlwind day at de-stress providing stress-free shopping experiences, as humanely possible. as i rest my head tonight, i will give delight to the fact that in our heart of hearts we hope we did accomplish just that.

A customer wrote me today regarding product damage that occured during shipping. We did our best to rectify the situation and here is what she said.

"Your approach to customer service is wonderful. Thank you again for your superb customer service -- you have gained a new repeat customer with your willingness to go the extra mile in resolving my problem."


bravo bravo to my customer. it takes time to give feedback, especially when it's a pleasant one so i thank you for being who you are.

well, we have officially kicked off the holidays with cyber monday, the monday after thanksgiving. somebody out there thought that name sounded good so it seemed to have stuck. I love facts and Wikipedia so I looked the term up. Here's what it says about Cyber Monday. According to BizRate Research 2006 eHoliday Mood Study, "77% of online retailers said their sales increased substantially last year on this Monday". And that is great news for us online retailers and great news for you the savvy online shopper.

Take a couple of deep breaths, say ahhh, stay in your pj's, put on your warm fuzzy slippers, turn on the holiday music, make your hot cocoa, light your soy candle, turn on your computer and start clicking away! Ahhh, stress free.

Our Cyber Specials

Share your thoughts, your inspirations and comments to me at maria@destressessentials.com.

November 24, 2006

when life gets hectic

with all this talk about sales and shopping i wanted to make sure we're also feeding our souls (myself included!).

when life gets hectic... be sure to create that spiritual space for yourself.
just as flowers and plants need space to grow and flourish, so do we. nothing soothes my spirit more than sitting outside taking in the natural beauty. i'm grateful for being able to do that year-round living in santa barbara. a quick jaunt to the beach with muse gives me tons of tranquility for the week. the sound of the water never fails to carry my troubles away. even living on the east coast during the winter months meandering along the serene potomac gave me a sense of peace.

find your spiritual space and reflect on all that you have to be grateful for. share if you'd like too. wishing you safe travels and many many more blissful moments. thank you for coming into my space today.

truly grateful for you,
maria

Holiday Bash

It's a HOLIDAY BASH going on at De-Stress!
We'll be updatiing our pages frequently so check back for new specials.

Click over to our new Sales and Specials page and our What's New page.

Aromatherapy for the home makes a scentfully delicious gift!
Aromasticks
Soy candles

Body Treats
Olivella made with 100% virgin olive oil, it is the all natural mediterranean diet for our skin!

Buddha Nose Body Treats for a stress-free holiday


A quick shout out that Buddha Nose is now available at De-Stress!

After a long day, doesn't a warm bath set the stage for a peaceful, restorative night's sleep by signaling your body that it's time to rest. We encourage you to enhance your experience by indulging in our spa-inspired find, Buddha Nose Body Treat that will definitely nourish your body and spirit.

After a warm soak, I love to wrap myself in a comfy robe and a cozy foot mule for a truly soothing evening ritual. A soy candle fills my room with a calming scent of lavender to really take me to that blissful space.

Meditation Bath Salts Be still and breathe. Quiet the mind and concentrate on nothing.

Happy soaking!

November 23, 2006

style bakery's holiday gift guide features Luxurious Neck Wraps



Shop from the comfort of your home for a truly stress-free shopping experience AND shop Indie while you're at it!

We're offering 10% off ALL Comfort Essentials - neck wraps, eye pillows, body wraps and oh so cozy foot mules in this year's Style Bakery's huge Holiday Gift Guide. Find us in 50 under $50.

About our NECK WRAPS: Bliss in a bag. Drift into total relaxation with these luxurious neck wraps. The ultimate in relaxation and stress relief. Available in many pretty fabrics. Comes with eco-chic jute tote.

** When purchasing neck wraps or any comfort essentials you must use code: StyleHoliday06 in comments section; free shipping on orders over $100. Adjustment will take place after checkout.


You know what you want. Click here to be taken directly to Comfort Essentials.

Happy Shopping!

November 22, 2006

happy thanksgiving

At De-Stress Essentials we hope your Thanksgiving is stress-free, relaxing and full of reflection. And here is a beautiful medley of color therapy... just in case you need the mood booster!

November 21, 2006

where to find us: Holiday Boutique Dec 3rd

Click on an image for a closer look.

More NEW product news... LUXURY Soaps from Italy!

We're busy little bees at De-Stress. Just in time for the holidays... we're stocking our store with SOAP, 21 Luxury soaps from Italy!

Nesti Dante Luxurious soaps inspired by the beautiful region of Florence, made with enchanting perfumes from the hills of Tuscany.



They're beautifully packaged in elegant Florentine style paper.
** Makes a delightful HOLIDAY gift.

Shop the ENERGIZING & REFRESHING Fruit line (available for purchase now) and take a peek at the other luxurious soap lines (available for purchase 9/22-23).

Take me to the new luxury SOAPS

The FRUIT line combines the ENERGY of fresh fruit and the properties
of olive oil in six invigorating fragrances:

FIG & ALMOND MILK SOAP
CITRON & BERGAMOT SOAP
POMEGRANATE & BLACKCURRANT SOAP
RED GRAPES & BLUEBERRY SOAP
PURE OLIVE OIL SOAP
PEACH & LEMON SOAP

November 20, 2006

new scents just added to via botanica line

Exciting news Via Botanica pamering fans.

Just arrived! NEW SCENTS to expand the current Via Botanica bath and body line. You craved it, we've got it.

Whipped Body Butter/Hand and Body Lotion/Body Wash/Sugar Cane Scrub/Body Butter available in these scents
Vanilla Orange (most popular)
Lavender
Invigorating Mint
new flavors: Ginger Cream, Honey Almond

Ginger Cream - a warm and nurturing scent

Honey Almond - just a hint of warm honey that softens on your sk
in to the barest reminder of honey and almonds. Sweet and sexy, yet not overly fragranced.


Handemade Soap
new flavors: Vanilla, Ginger Cream, Honey Almond

November 18, 2006

New Product coming soon! Buddha Nose

We're really excited about this hip and tranquil addition to our store... Buddha Nose aromatic oils and plant remedies

Here's a sneak peak.

Bodhi Balm To relax, quiet the mind & peace out!
A unique balm to ease tension headaches, and aches and pains associated with stress.


Girl Balm To ease cramps and lighten moods

Hey Girlfriends! Need a belly balm
to rub away aches and grouchy feelings associated with your cycle? Massage a fingertipfull of Girl Balm into your lower belly, as often as needed.

November 17, 2006

being beautiful naturally

maria's tips on being BEAUTIFUL, naturally

~ love your life and everything around you. the more you count your blessings, the more they will appear.

~ drink lots of water. being dehydrated can make you stressed, but pure fresh water both energizes and uplifts naturally.

~ no matter how stressed you are - exercise. it is the best anti-stress medicine ever! just 30 minutes of it can help you deal with anything.

~ laugh really loud whenever and as often as you can, it is very liberating!

~ eat fresh fruits and vegetables every day. rich in nutrients and skin-protective anti-oxidants, these are nature's beauty foods.

~ give hugs, lots of them. if you cannot find anyone, hug a tree ;-)

~ have massages: in addition to toning your muscles and relieving aches, being kneaded and squashed simply makes your body happy.

~ love your body and stop criticizing yourself. remember, you truly are a miracle of nature.

~ be really really genuinly nice to everyone. smiles are contagious. it's even known to boost your immune system!

November 15, 2006

de-stress /spa talk news

lots of wonderful new things happening at de-stress. i've added new links on spa talk and will be updating de-stress in the coming days with exciting new products, like buddha nose and nesti dante italian soaps and even a spa baby line. you'll notice another resource to help you nurture your mind body spirit at "today's daily om" link, an easier to navigate blog archive by topic and "quick look-up" links to help you get to what you're looking for faster. a newsletter is in the works (scheduled for winter 2006-07), a sales and specials page and exciting contests with prizes... all coming up.

New links on spa talk

What's New / Up and Coming

perfectionism

as i sit typing away with muse by my side, i notice how she just takes things in stride, doing one thing, moving on and being happy in each moment. so that just brought me an aha moment about me versus perfectionism. that 'p' word is driving me to compulsive behavior with frustration as a side effect. did i really need to edit the copy 8 times? do i need to respond to every email? did i really need to make the image one pixel smaller then larger then smaller? did i really need to spend 3 hrs on one color decision? as my vow to strive for constant balance in my life, i'm gently reminded by muse to enjoy what i'm doing and leave the compulsion behind. my hope for you (and me!) is to set reasonable standards for ourselves. aim to be a healthy striver and enjoy the process as well as the outcome. it does lead to a more balanced life and a more genuine pleasure in the pursuit of excellence.

November 13, 2006

laugh your way to wellness

I'm always seeking out interesting articles on wellness. My sister knows this so she sends me articles and links on things she comes across. She sent a fun one last night about balance... laughing your way to wellness. It's a type of yoga called Okido. The purpose is to help you regain the connection to your life-force and create the basis for better health and spiritual happiness. I gave it a try this morning with muse. She can always make me laugh. She does this drop roll thing on me most mornings to play and wake me up to feed her. She seems to have the Okido practice mastered. So I giggled myself to bliss. Really lightened me up, ready for whatever comes my way today.

So time to open our minds and take a journey to find the inner child in you and laugh your way through the day. What a natural way to feel good!

If we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane.
- Jimmy Buffett

reasons why I home spa

By now it's probably no secret that I love pampering. It wasn't always in me... I actually shyed away from things that brought attention to myself. And even more so I shyed away from pricey spas. But now I might indulge only on occasion but home is where I'm most comfortable in integrating my spa routines.

I find the wonderful thing about getting older is becoming more in tune with our Self. That means, taking time out for us. Pampering should be as beneficial as reading a book, eating healthy and even walking your dog (shame on you if you're not!). It's up there with my peace, health, balance, my overall wellness.

As we head into the holidays be aware of how you're feeling and listen to what your body is telling you. What does it need? More TLC? A salt scrub perhaps? Make home spa'ing within your reach so that it's practical for you, your lifestyle and your wallet. I challenge you to get creative and use the ingredients in your cupboard right now. Take a look at Inside the Spa Pantry for creative practical home spa recipes.

I love this quote by Anais Nin "I go in to come out". It sums up why I take spa moments no matter how busy life gets. As the week goes by, I challenge you to just listen to your inner spa diva and give it the attention you deserve.

If you have a favorite recipe, I'm eager to hear about it to share with others.

Happy Spa'ing.

November 10, 2006

happy friday

You've been a busy bee all week now go buzzz off and reward the little bee in you. Do doing something super special for yourself.

Bee well.

November 08, 2006

many uses for the eye pillow

One of my favorite spa items I own is the eye pillow. It's also one of those items that can be easily tossed aside if it's out sight. To prevent this, I keep it visible on my side table ready to use, stored away in its jute bag.

I use it a few ways.

1- As an end to doing a few sun salutations at home, I end a yoga session with shavasana - deep relaxation - where I lie on my back with my lavendar filled eye pillow on and accept the aromatherapy. I am completely relaxed and my mind quiet and still.
Tip** for a more intense relaxation, microwave eye pillow for a few seconds. You will love the warm feeling.

2- I also bring my eye pillow to yoga class so I can look forward to relaxation even more... in a room full of other yogis. Laying there with my eye pillow I enjoy a total feeling of accomplishment after a solid seventy five minutes of practice!

3- Great for a quick power nap. The eye pillow completely blocks out the light so there are no visual distractions. It's designed to fit above the nose, so it's a comfortable fit.

4- I take it along when travelling. In unfamiliar hotel rooms, it takes longer for me to fall into my zzzz's. The pillow is the comfort.

5- I started toting my eye pillow to the beach recently. I put a cover on it though so muse won't get sand on it while she's digging to get cool. When Muse sees it, she knows it's my time. Muse relaxes quietly next to me.

November 07, 2006

TranquilT Treatment and Ayurveda

I was in Bethesda, MD last month when I heard about Tranquil Space, a hip lifestyle- focused Yoga studio. They had all these neat offerings aside from yoga so I eagerly signed up for 'ayurveda and thai yoga bodywork'. The best part of it was the ayurvedic (more on that below) consulatation. I learned what my particular dosha or body constitution was. Through a series of questions, Ann my bodyworker and ayurvedic expert, was able to conclude that I had dominant Vata elements -- space/ether and air elements. Not so suprising since travelling is not generous with balance, routine, and relaxation.

The consultation was followed by a thai yoga massage that was customized to balance my Vata. Ann also recommended I stay away from salads and cold food while travelling and eat warm solid foods to help stabilize my energy that is just all over the place!

The thai yoga bodywork combined massage, assisted yoga poses, acupressure, energy work, and meditation to unblock energy, relieve tension, and increase my body's natural ability to heal itself.

So what has this done for me? After leaving the session, the worries of traffic, work, where to be next -- all vanished. Vanished. I shed years. What this has also done for me is to remind myself to be more aware of what my body is telling me. I am stubborn so I ignore it when I should be doing opposite. We all could use a little reminder that we need to listen and to act wisely to what our body is telling us. We all have our unique quidance system. We just have to remember to tap into this free resource within each of us!

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Here's what wikipedia has to say about Ayurveda. Click here to go to website.

Excerpt from Ayurveda workshop at Tranquil Space:
Ayurveda is an ancient holistic system of medicine and a sister science to yoga that seeks to improve one's emotional, energetic and physical well-being.

• Ayurveda believes that we are part of everything (of the entire universe) and are therefore made up of the same ‘stuff’ as the universe, i.e. of the basic elements that the universe is made of; Ayurveda names ether/space; air; fire; water; earth
• in the human body these come together as 3 body constitutions (doshas): Vata – Pitta - Kapha

space/ether and air fire and water water and earth

Vata Pitta Kapha

• we all have all three of these energies in us, but not in the same amount; naturally one or two will predominate
• which energies are dominant will have to be taken into account when we look at how to help a person find optimal health;
• this also means we are unique and presents a different approach to the body and healing; it explains why not the same things are good for everybody and makes it possible to understand and treat the individual
• therefore, the way our constitution is made up will determine how we can find balance in our life; i.e. a person who has a lot of Pitta/fire and maybe also some water/Kapha in their life will not want to add more of these elements to their life, but will want to find a way of living (lifestyle routines, diet) that balance their constitution – then we can live in harmony with ourselves, live our life to the fullest (developing our full potential), live in harmony with Nature/the environment and reconnect with Purusha.
• Robert Svoboda: Every human being is a unique individual, full of idiosyncrasies and peculiarities. Your most precious possession, your life, is yours and yours alone, unlike that of any other human being past, present or future. Each human being is a unique manifestation of Mother Nature, the Creative Energy of the universe. Each possesses an indwelling fragment of the Universal Soul. The message of the Vedas is that each of us mist find our own path to a life lived to the fullest, for only by making the most of ourselves can we repay to Nature the debt we owe Her for giving us life. The universe needs you to add your mite to the vast collective tapestry we call human civilization. You can make your fullest contribution to life only when you are healthy and health alone enables you to enjoy your life to the fullest in return.

November 05, 2006

New! Sharon Bolton BODY WASH and LOTION


I'm happy to announce 2 new local products added to our existing Sharon Bolton line: luv, soul, truth BODY WASH and BODY LOTION, the Santa Barbara collection.

Intoxicating, ultimately feminine scents for every busy woman. Make your own discovery. Will it be Luv, Soul or Truth!?

Shall I dare say what perfume oil you can find in my purse...
Luv. But of course!

Not only are her scents uplifting but the woman behind the product is equally inspiring. View complete line here:
Sharon Bolton scents

**Gift idea** Essential oil perume for the ultra feminine woman.

November 02, 2006

Holiday Boutique show Dec 3rd mark your calendars

Let the Season Begin!
Mark your social and shopping calendars.

What: Holiday Boutique Show event
When: Sunday December 3rd, 12pm - 4pm
Where: Tone-Up Santa Barbara

36 W Calle Laureles (de la vina and state)
Santa Barbara

Join us for a day in celebration of creativity and shop early for a stress-free holiday, Santa Barbara style - fun, care-free!

This holiday's creative cast will include:

Yachtie-Girl, apparel for the boat and beyond
Bella Notte 2 - lingerie by Jean Babbe
Jan Winn Jewelry Designs
Alex Clothing - vintage bags and clothes
Dorothy Turk scarves
Teal Turk - hand designed T-shirts
Cathy Fletcher Baskets
Thomas Rhodes Jewelry
Alycia Rhodes - hand painted greeting cards
Karen Schoer - knit purses
Little Bumble - baby t's
Cindy & Mark DeAnda - Cookbook/CD sets
(and finally, me) Destress Essentials - soylicious candles, aromasticks, comfort essentials, bath & body

Social consciousness and support of entrepreneurship and creativity is an important value of De-Stress Essentials. A portion of our proceeds and all other fabulous vendors will be donated to The Unity Shoppe in Santa Barbara. On their website, they write: "If we help with "basic needs" we can prevent "homelessness and welfare dependency". No progress is possible without shelter, food and clothing. And we can't agree more.

Aaahhhh, back home in Santa Barbara


Back home from road travels from west coast to east coast (and back) with muse and husband. The challenging part is summing up trip highlights. None stands out more than another... it was an all around great trip.

I however gathered a deeper appreciation for ALL things around me... high-speed internet, our highway system, clean restrooms, changing landscapes, breathtaking scenery, diversity of the states, their rich history, family and the friendly people we met along the way. I am refreshed, with new perspectives!

One wonderful new thing I did for myself since I got back is writing in a journal what I'm gratful for that day. This allows me to focus on positive experiences. Takes only a few minutes before you lay your head to rest at night and you'll be amazed at how quickly your thoughts change.

Coming soon... highlights from the Inside Beauty Conference & Exhibit NYC / Green Festival Washington, DC.